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Lead without imposing
A leader proposes. A leader does not impose.
- Leading begins before the visible movement.
- Create a clear intention.
- Give your partner time to receive it.
- Observe the answer before adding more.
- Do not drag the follower into your timing.
- A clear lead creates choice, trust and dialogue.
- The goal is not obedience. The goal is shared movement.
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How to lead in Kizomba without imposing. A leader proposes.
Leading begins before the visible movement. You create a clear intention, you give your partner the time to receive it, and you observe the answer before adding anything else.
The most common mistake I correct is dragging the follower into your own timing. It works, in the sense that the movement happens. It also kills the dialogue.
A clear lead creates choice, trust and conversation. The goal was never obedience.
Clear leading works the same in Kizomba, Tarraxo and UrbanKiz.
